The words I like, the world I live in part 2

I have seen a few posts of people writing on here and lots of them containing the words "slut" or "bitch" if not, even more horrible, "whore". Now for as much as I can understand that, some "dirty" words like that can be seen as "exciting and kinky" I just can't see past the insult. I can't stand these words because they are demeaning. And I am not one of those hypocrites that thinks porn is demeaning. Some maybe, but most porn is there for one purpose and it should be seen as such, not as real life lessons. Far too many young men watch porn thinking that what they see in it is what they will get in real life, so no wonder they get astonished and sometimes even upset over things that women like me don't like to do. And they have no clue how to please a woman and fully enjoy the multifaceted thing that is good sex. Some of them just have no idea what foreplay is, let alone how to do it, and how to get a 360° experience involving all senses. A lot of them ignore the kissing, some thinking it should be reserved only for the women they love, not lust for, while it's so important for a much better sexual experience. -“There’s evidence that men like sloppier kisses with a more open mouth. That suggests that they are unconsciously attempting to transfer testosterone to trigger the sex drive to woman.” Now this is not true for most Scotsmen that I kissed. Very few gave me the pleasure of a proper kiss, most keeping their mouth too closed, like if opening it would make them vulnerable. Although my sexual partners have been quite limited because I am very fussy and choosy, I have kissed more than I slept with, the old saying being: a princess has to kiss a lot of frogs...