Patience is a virtue, one I sometimes struggle with.
Patience has various limits.
It can be about anything, some things have less of a margin in limits than others.
Dating is one of the areas of my life where my patience can suffer.
I know everyone has their reasons, life, things happening, people to deal with, work, situations...but. When you don't have a clue what is going on, that is when you can loose the patience.
This in my case usually means a message to test the waters then some more forced patience applied for another 24 hours and if nothing happens (a reply or else) then delete and move on.
No matter how amazing that person seems, if it's meant to be, nothing will stop it from happening. Unless of course they get in serious trouble, but that's hardly ever the case. Excuses can work up to a point, then they start to smell funny.
Patience has various limits.
It can be about anything, some things have less of a margin in limits than others.
Dating is one of the areas of my life where my patience can suffer.
I know everyone has their reasons, life, things happening, people to deal with, work, situations...but. When you don't have a clue what is going on, that is when you can loose the patience.
This in my case usually means a message to test the waters then some more forced patience applied for another 24 hours and if nothing happens (a reply or else) then delete and move on.
No matter how amazing that person seems, if it's meant to be, nothing will stop it from happening. Unless of course they get in serious trouble, but that's hardly ever the case. Excuses can work up to a point, then they start to smell funny.
Insistence on subjects I don't like to touch can really get at me.
Repeating to the same person I am not into something, chatting with people with one or no picture, getting stood up, having dates cancelled are also things that get at me.
Repeating to the same person I am not into something, chatting with people with one or no picture, getting stood up, having dates cancelled are also things that get at me.
And what about booty calls not answered? Speech text, abbreviations, lack of grammar and punctuation, misspelling, ignorance. People that don't read my profile. Liars, cheaters, selfish people. People that say something then don't act on it. All of this gets at me.
Do I let it bother me? Sometimes, others I just breathe it off.
If there is something I have learnt it's that I am WORTH the effort of meeting up, I am worth being held with tenderness, stroke like a precious stone, kissed like I am fresh water in the desert, grabbed with passion, having my body caressed with care. I am worth this and much more. I am worth spanking and having my neck marked with your fire, having your hand on my throat so you can feel how my pulse races under your strong fingers. I am worth being brought to ecstasy, being taken slow, soft, fast and hard.
So if you don't think I am WORTH ALL OF THIS AND MORE just do us both a favor and say goodbye.
So if you don't think I am WORTH ALL OF THIS AND MORE just do us both a favor and say goodbye.
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